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Kirsten D Samuel
Coach | Author | Speaker
About
You found out. And now everything you thought was true about your marriage—about yourself—is in question.
You're holding it together on the outside. But inside you're replaying the moment. Wondering what you missed. Wondering what it means about you.
You don't have to figure this out alone.
I've been exactly where you are.
When my husband's pornography addiction came to light, my world didn't just crack—it collapsed. I went to the bottom. And then the bottom of the bottom.
What came out the other side wasn't the woman who went in. It was someone stronger, more honest, and more alive than I knew how to be before.
That's what this work does. Not pasting broken pieces back together. A complete rebuilding—on a foundation that actually holds.
This is what changes:
You stop measuring your worth against what he did.
You start recognizing your own voice again.
You rebuild your life—not the one you had, but one more honest and more yours.
You start recognizing your own voice again.
You rebuild your life—not the one you had, but one more honest and more yours.
No depression is too deep for this. No wound too old. No situation too far gone.
You can breathe again. I've seen it happen—and I can help you get there.
Click Book Now to schedule your free first session.
Packages
Free Breathe Again Coaching Session - Women Only
You found out about his porn use—and now you don't know what to do next. This free 30-minute session is for the questions you haven't been able to say out loud—and the need for someone who already understands before you say a word. You'll leave with one clear next step that belongs to your specific situation.
6-Month Private Coaching - Women Only
You found out. Now you can't unknow it. You don't have to find your way through this alone.
Single Session Private Coaching - Women Only
This single 60-minute session is for the woman who has been carrying something she hasn't been able to say out loud. You'll leave with one clear, specific next step that belongs exactly to where you are.
Breathe Again Together Initial Session (Couples)
Your marriage took a hit you didn't see coming. This free session is where you find out if it can survive—and what it takes to rebuild.
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7-Day Sample: Who Does God Say I Am Digital Devotional Journal
Who Does God Say you Are? Check out this free digital download sample of my 90-day devotional.
Who Does God Say I Am 90-day Devotional Journal
Everything you believed in just got shaken. Who Does God Say I Am is a 90-day devotional journal for the days when you're not sure God's promises still apply to you anymore.
Free Resource - 5 Steps to Calm Yourself After Discovering His P*rn Use
If you have just found out about his p*rnography addiction, this resource is for you.
Paperback: Choosing A Way Out: When the Bottom Isn't the Bottom
When everything you trusted shatters, where do you turn? In Choosing a Way Out, Kirsten shares her honest journey through betrayal and brokenness—and the God who met her there. This is a story for any woman wondering if healing is still possible.
Digital PDF: Choosing A Way Out: When the Bottom Isn't the Bottom
When everything you trusted shatters, where do you turn? In Choosing a Way Out, Kirsten shares her honest journey through betrayal and brokenness—and the God who met her there. This is a story for any woman wondering if healing is still possible.
Paperback: 5 Lies Moms Believe: Be the Mom Your Believes You Are
5 Lies Moms Believe guides exhausted moms through doubts, mistakes, and everyday chaos with honesty, Scripture, and hope. Kirsten shows that the care you carry isn’t a sign of failure—it’s proof you are a good mom.
Digital PDF: 5 Lies Moms Believe: Be the Mom Your Believes You Are
5 Lies Moms Believe guides exhausted moms through doubts, mistakes, and everyday chaos with honesty, Scripture, and hope. Kirsten shows that the care you carry isn’t a sign of failure—it’s proof you are a good mom.
Testimonials
Kirsten offers the greatest blend of compassion and truth and helps you focus on the deeper issues preventing you from moving forward in your healing process. I was so grateful to have her guiding me from the beginning, and her coaching is well worth the cost!
- MT
Kirsten is an excellent listener and makes me always feel very safe and
comfortable in a conversation. She offers straight advice about hard topics, and
doesn’t shy away from difficult subjects or problems in life. Kirsten is great at
helping others to identify what needs to change in their lives and intentionally
walking with them thru the process.
- KM
Kirsten doesn’t back down or shy away from hard things but has taught me by
example how to face my problems and fears head-on.
- RL
Thank you, thank you. Though this is still very raw I feel encouraged. . .the session was fantastic.
- CW
Free Find Hope Again Session
You can heal. I can Help. Let's talk.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are you a counselor?
No. I'm a coach.
Counselors provide therapy; coaches seek transformation for their clients.
Learn more about the uniquenesses here.
Counselors provide therapy; coaches seek transformation for their clients.
Learn more about the uniquenesses here.
What can I expect from my coaching sessions?
Personal growth, understanding, hope, and encouragement.
How fast you progress on your healing journey depends on the work you put in and your commitment to change and grow. As a coach, I cannot force you to change or do your homework.
How fast you progress on your healing journey depends on the work you put in and your commitment to change and grow. As a coach, I cannot force you to change or do your homework.
How do I reschedule my session?
You can reschedule your session in your client portal or by emailing [email protected] at least 24 hours in advance. In the case of an emergency, please email [email protected] immediately or text 719.362.0474 to notify us and we will reschedule your session.
Will I have assignments or homework?
Yes.
Where do I find my assignments?
In your client portal under Private Content.
My friend needs help, may I refer her to you?
Of course. And thank you. Referrals mean a lot to me as a coach. Send her this link: https://paperbell.me/kirstend-samuel
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