Nikkita Clay, Divorce Recovery Strategist

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About

 
Nikkita is a  Faith-Based Divorce Recovery Strategist, and published author of The Royalty in Me: A Self-Love Journal. She has supported individuals on their healing journey since 1994 and holds certifications in, Stress Management, Forgiveness Coaching, Journal Coaching, and Insight Coaching, trained in military trauma as well as an Associate of Science in Psychology. 
Founder of 3asketsfull & Co., Nikkita combines her personal journey through life and divorce, faith in God, and decades of experience to help individuals rise from broken to bold in faith and transform setbacks into God-designed comebacks. She walks alongside clients with empathy, honesty, and practical tools to gain clarity, strength, and renewed purpose. 

Packages

Clarity & Alignment Call

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90-Day Divorce & Life Recovery & Transformation

 90-Day Divorce & Life Recovery & Transformation Program 
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Accountability Coaching Package – Stay On Track, Stay Empowered

Build a support crew with 6 monthly group sessions.
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Testimonials

Having Nikkita as my coach has truly been life changing. Through her guidance, I’ve learned powerful stress management tools—like grounding breathwork, recognizing when to step back and recenter, and so much more. She’s helped me understand the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness, lessons that have reshaped the way I treat myself.

Thanks to Nikkita, my mindset has transformed. I approach challenges more clearly, my mood is more balanced, and perhaps most profoundly, I’ve begun to look at myself—inside and out—with greater appreciation and less criticism.

- Somar

Working with Nikkita has been nothing short of life changing. Her ability to see beyond challenges and guide me to the root of my growth has been both empowering and healing. Her wisdom and encouragement have helped me shift my mindset and step fully into my purpose. I’m beyond grateful for her impact on my journey.

- Berlina

Nikkita is a powerful light in every space she enters. She is grounded, uplifting, and deeply intuitive. From the start, she brought a sense of calm and clarity that made it easy to be myself by cultivating a judgment-free space where I felt seen and heard.

What stood out most was how naturally she allowed me to express myself not just in conversation, but emotionally and spiritually. Opening up to someone isn’t easy, especially when you're carrying years of layered experiences, fears, or self-doubt, but with Nikkita, vulnerability didn’t feel scary. It felt healing! She listens with genuine compassion and asks the kind of questions that helps me understand on a deeper level.

Beyond being an incredible coach and mentor, Nikkita is a true friend. Always supportive, always present. Her encouragement feels like a warm reminder of who you truly are, even on the toughest days. She has helped me realign with my purpose, find strength in stillness, and create healthy rhythms that continue to transform my daily life.

I’m so thankful to call her not only a mentor but a friend. Nikkita you are a rare gem, a beautiful soul. Your words bring clarity, and heart brings healing! You don’t just guide me; you walk with me!

- Jeni A.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q. What kind of coaching do you offer?
A. I offer spirit-filled, client-centered coaching that meets you where you are. Coaching is open to all individuals, regardless of age, background, or life stage. Whether you're seeking clarity, healing, emotional breakthrough, or support during a transition—there is space here for you.

My coaching specialties include:

Certified Insight Coaching

Certified Stress Management Coaching

Certified Forgiveness Life Coaching

Journal Coaching (Author of The Royalty In Me: A Journal of Self-Love)

Divorce Recovery Coaching

Empowerment Coaching

Positive Affirmation Coaching


Q. What is your coaching approach?
A. My coaching is spirit-led, empowering, and rooted in truth. I do not give advice or tell you what to do. Instead, I guide you with powerful questions that help you access your own insight and inner wisdom.

You’ll be encouraged to come with honesty and readiness. Transformation comes not from what I tell you—but from what you uncover. In our sessions, we speak life—not the old lies that play on repeat in your mind. Especially in Positive Affirmation Coaching, we focus on breaking patterns and speaking truth over your life.


Q. Who is your coaching designed for?
A. I work with anyone who is ready to face life’s challenges head-on and commit to meaningful, lasting change. Whether you’re seeking healing, clarity, empowerment, or emotional breakthrough, this is a safe space where you will be truly seen, heard, and supported.

If you’re willing to do the deep inner work necessary to rebuild strength, gain wisdom, and transform your life, I am here to walk alongside you—with compassion, empathy, and a grounded spiritual foundation.

This coaching journey is for those who are serious about growth and ready to move forward with intention. If that’s you, don’t hesitate—your transformation starts here.


Q. How do I know if we’re the right fit?
A. I offer a gifted 50-minute coaching session to all new clients. This allows us to connect, explore your needs, and see if my coaching style aligns with your journey. It’s a no-pressure space to gain clarity and decide if we’re a match for the work ahead.
Q. What can I expect in a coaching session?
A. Each session is confidential, spirit-filled, and focused entirely on you. Sessions may include guided conversation, journaling exercises, affirmations, stress management tools, or forgiveness work—tailored to your goals and your pace.

This is a space for truth, release, clarity, and transformation—not performance. You show up, and I meet you there with grace and structure.
Q. Is coaching the same as therapy?
A. No. Coaching is forward-focused and rooted in personal growth and action. Therapy often addresses mental health diagnoses and unresolved trauma. If I feel you need clinical or therapeutic care beyond the scope of coaching, I will gladly refer you to a qualified mental health provider.


Q. What is Journal Coaching and how does it work?
A. Journal Coaching is a deeply reflective process. You may bring your own personal journal, or choose to purchase a coaching bundle that includes my published journal, The Royalty In Me: A Journal of Self-Love.

This 90-day journal includes:

Guided prompts

Positive affirmations

Forgiveness and self-love exercises

Testimony pages

Scriptures for inspiration

We can walk through the journal together or use it as a tool between sessions. Either way, journal coaching supports healing, truth-telling, and transformation through written reflection.


Q. Are sessions confidential?
A. Yes. Your privacy is respected and protected. All sessions are confidential unless you disclose that you are in danger of harming yourself or others. In that case, I am ethically and legally obligated to notify the appropriate authorities.
Q. Do you offer online or in person coaching sessions?
A. All coaching sessions are held virtually via Zoom. This allows you to connect from anywhere in a private, secure, and comfortable setting.


Q. Do you offer sessions singly or as packages?
A. Yes. I offer single breakthrough sessions and coaching packages for ongoing support. Packages allow us to go deeper over time and may include additional support or materials. You can view and book all options on my Paperbell site. https://paperbell.me/3asketsfullco
Q. Do you offer public speaking engagements?
A. Yes! I am available for public speaking engagements and workshops. I love speaking to youth (both girls and boys), young adults, and adults about healing, self-worth, purpose, forgiveness, and empowerment.

Whether it's a church, school, retreat, or community event—I bring a message of truth, transparency, and encouragement that meets people where they are.

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