Splendid Torch Coaching

Become a force of nature - on purpose.

About

Transformational Inner Leadership Coaching, AKA kind, fiercely honest coaching for people who are ready to discover their own truth. 


I’m Mel Rowe, the founder of Splendid Torch Coaching. I work with thoughtful, sensitive, often over-responsible humans who are tired of contorting themselves to keep the peace and are finally ready to be honest about what’s actually going on inside.

I coach because my life purpose is to help other people. I hit rock bottom in 2019, checked myself into the mental hospital, and realized my life purpose: helping others, especially through big transformations. Since then, I've done a ton of personal growth work, because I am passionate about getting better at helping others by learning how to help myself, too. I know what it's like to deal with some of the worst things this life has to offer. I won't ever minimize what's going on with you, because I have been through some incredibly insane experiences in my life (haha). I like to bring humor when talking about the hard stuff in life.

I am an ICF-Certified Coach. I have two coaching certifications from the Intuitive Life Coaching Academy of Transformation & Excellence and the Virginia Satir Global Network, so I'm very intuitive and psychoeducational in my approach. I want to clarify: I am not a therapist. I am just a huge advocate of mental health.

My style is straightforward and caring. I’m not here to fix you, rescue you, or sell you a five-step miracle. I'm here to help you. I'm here to help you tell the truth, face the discomfort that comes with that, and find the clarity you’ve been circling around for years. We’ll look at your patterns, your history, and your current reality without sugarcoating—and without shaming you, either. 

In sessions, you can expect real questions, real reflection, and practical next steps. I’ll validate what makes sense, challenge what keeps you stuck, and always respect your pace and your “no.”

I'm not into that weird power dynamic that can happen with certain therapists and coaches. I act as your teammate, and I take that seriously. I'm here to help you, but I'm not better than you. I just happen to be good at helping other people - it's my purpose in life.
 
If you’re ready to stop gaslighting yourself and start actually listening to yourself, we’ll work well together. In simple words - if you're ready to face yourself and hear the hard truths that will ultimately serve your growth, then you should definitely consider working with me.

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Testimonials

Mel is a true hero and idol to me. Her confidence and understanding make her unique, and she’s always willing to help others, even with the most personal issues. Mel has a natural talent for connecting with people, offering sincere advice, and inspiring others to be their best. She has greatly improved my life, helping me manage my emotions, communicate better, and build confidence. I deeply appreciate her care, especially when I was struggling. We have meaningful conversations, and her energy is always uplifting. I highly recommend Mel to anyone seeking
guidance—she genuinely cares and listens.

- Ozzie

Mel is a great coach. She always has the client agenda in the forefront. She listens empathically and gives great homework (if that is what you want). I would recommend her 1000%!!!!!!

- Lisa

Mel is the ultimate “hypewoman,” who champions for her clients through and through. Her radical vulnerability is her superpower and she uses it to foster a safe, judge-free zone, where you feel seen, heard, and understood. I am very grateful for the way she has challenged and stretched me into embracing this new version of myself. With her help, I’ve been able to work through my limiting beliefs and launch my business. I am grateful to have someone like her in my corner!

- Jaselia

Mel is great at guiding me to think more about the “why” in certain behaviors. She is supportive and kind, but tough in a loving way when she needs to be.

- Bettyjeane

Melissa has helped me for years to recognize and appreciate my strengths and to honor my individuality and unique qualities. She has helped me to persevere through difficult professional circumstances to rise above toxic cultures and stay true to my values while maintaining respect and dignity in the workplace. She has helped me to recognize unhealthy relationships and how to cultivate healthier versions through self-care and implementation of personal boundaries. Melissa has a storied past which helps her to be her most empathetic self and enables her to draw from her own wisdom and experiences to help others reach their full potential. She is incredibly passionate and has a unique way of using humor and compassion to connect with people from all walks of life.

- Jessica

Melissa helped me overcome many deep-seeded unhealthy habits I had developed from my childhood that I could never have done on my own. Since I have known her, my confidence, my courage, and my people skills have risen to the point where I am nearly unrecognizable. I have been able to accomplish so much with her help, Melissa is so personable and approachable you can't help but open up to her, and she is able to understand on such a deeply impact full level how to help. It's almost a sixth sense how she can pick up on what's holding you back and is such a positivity champion in encouraging you to overcome, I truly cannot recommend her strongly enough.

- Jade

Melissa does a wonderful job coaching me through my life difficulties with great professionalism and love. She helps me view situations through a different view and teaches me ways to cope and work through these moments. She is always encouraging me to be my best, positive, loving person even when I’m struggling to be that person. She has helped me grow my confidence in myself as a daughter, mother, wife and woman!

- Angie

I can’t recommend Mel highly enough as a coach. She’s the kind of listener who makes you feel truly heard, and not just waiting for her turn to talk, but really taking in what you’re saying. She creates a safe space where you can be honest about where you are and where you want to go, without any judgment. And she’s the ultimate hype person: she believes in you, sometimes before you fully believe in yourself, and she has a way of reminding you of your own strengths right when you need it. Kind, grounded, and genuinely in your corner. Anyone lucky enough to work with her is in great hands.

- J

She knows when to listen, she knows when to speak, and she knows when to voice her personal experiences. I always leave our sessions with calm and more understanding about who I am and what my next steps are.

- L

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