Iola Burnsed

Grief Recovery Specialist

About

My name is Iola Burnsed, and I am honored to walk alongside you on your journey to healing.  As a faith-based Grief Recovery Specialist with over 20 years of experience, I provide compassionate support to those navigating life's most difficult challenges.
My story is one of resilience and transformation.  I have endured many types of loss...parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, a miscarriage and even the devastating loss of my own son when he was only 18 years old.  I've known the crushing weight of divorce, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse, broken relationships, lost friendships and the on-going pain of a prodigal child.  I have also lost all my worldly possessions to a house fire, was forced to quit a job I loved, and have gone through 7 major surgeries.  There have been many unmet hopes, dreams and expectations over the years, as well as the loss of concepts like: security, trust, respect and hope.
The weight of my grief was overwhelming at times.  Even with a strong faith, counseling, and the support of loved ones, I searched for deeper healing.
It was through The Grief Recovery Method (GRM) that I found the TOOLS to process the pain of these losses.  I believe God led me to the GRM for the transformation needed in my life. Today, I have the God-given joy and peace that surpasses all understanding and this is what I want for you!
Inspired by this life-changing experience, I became a GRM Specialist.  I now blend my personal journey and professional expertise to help others find hope and healing.
If you’re grieving a loved one, a broken relationship, financial loss, changes in your health or any other significant loss, you don’t have to face it alone. Together, we can find HEALTH, HOPE, and HEALING for your heart.

Take the first step today. Schedule a FREE consultation, and let’s begin your journey toward a brighter future.

***Note:  Please do not let finances keep you from participating.  If you are struggling financially, please reach out to me, I have options!***

With care and understanding,
Iola Burnsed

Packages

Free Discovery Call

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Complete 7 Session Package

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60-Minute Add-On Session

For additional sessions after completion of the 7 week program.
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DONATE A SESSION

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DONATE A 7 SESSION PACKAGE

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Testimonials

I have just finished up my grief coaching with Iola. Being able to get everything out has had a profound effect upon my mental health. I would 100% recommend The Valley Of Vision to anyone who is struggling with any type of loss or grief. The grief recovery method has done wonders for me. I wish I hadn’t waited for over 7 years to seek help. In just a few weeks I felt like I had the right tools to deal with every life struggle I have ever had.

- Debbie

This program is spot on and addresses well how to obtain healing and completeness! I have experienced many different types of losses, but it wasn't until I received grief coaching with Iola that I finally understood the importance of talking with someone who will not judge you and can help you find peace. Highly recommend!!!

- Rachel

Before working with Iola, my experiences with traditional mental health support often felt clinical and difficult to truly connect with. Her grief coaching was completely different. From the very beginning, it felt personal, compassionate, and genuine — like talking with a trusted friend who truly understood the depth of my grief. For the first time in a long time, I felt seen, heard, and supported without judgment. Because of her guidance, I am finally beginning to move forward in my grief journey with hope and healing.

- Sandra

What I found most helpful was the compassion of another grieving mother who truly understood my pain. I felt heard, validated, and deeply supported through the sharing of her personal experiences.
Through this journey, I gained a new perspective on the guilt I had been carrying, which has been incredibly healing for me. I also learned how to acknowledge the hurtful actions of others that I had struggled to forgive, and that process has brought me a great sense of freedom.
Today, I am moving forward on a new path toward forgiveness. I am no longer allowing the pain caused by others to continue hurting me, and for the first time in a long time, I feel hope and peace returning to my life.

- Jackie

By the end of the seven weeks, I felt like a huge weight had been lifted. This experience helped me realize that I hadn’t truly been processing my grief — I was pushing my feelings down and pretending to be okay.
Now that I’ve completed the program, I see things more clearly and have gained the tools I need to move forward in a healthy way. This was a powerful experience, and I’m excited to pass what I’ve learned on to my children.

- Tayra

I love the way Iola’s faith shines through everything she does. From the very beginning, she saw me as a person, not just someone experiencing grief, and her empathy made me feel truly seen and understood.
Her compassion and kindness created a safe space for me to talk through difficult emotions and work through some guilt I had been carrying. I especially appreciated her patience and willingness to walk alongside me through every step of the process.
By the end of the program, I not only experienced healing and growth, but I also found the courage to step outside my comfort zone and pursue a completely new direction in my life.
I highly recommend Iola’s program to anyone navigating grief of any kind. Her faith, compassion, and genuine care make all the difference.

- Phyllis

I loved everything about this program! Before working with Iola, I was struggling with the unexpected loss of my 31-year-old daughter, the loss of my mother, and the loss of my career. I was carrying so much regret over things I wished I had said or done differently.
Through this process, Iola helped me break free from the prison of guilt and grief that I had built around myself. As we walked through our experiences together, she provided compassionate guidance, understanding, and practical tools that helped me heal.
One of the greatest gifts I received was learning how to remember my loved ones without being overwhelmed by pain and agony. I can now cherish their memories with greater peace and gratitude.

Iola's program can help anyone who is struggling with loss, and I highly recommend it to anyone seeking hope, healing, and a way forward. ❤️

- Amy

Since working with Iola I am better in tune with my emotions. I am able to handle negative emotional events with an understanding that I will be able to work through it and feel safe and happy again. I feel like I have learned some valuable coping skills and I plan to continue on my journey of healing and growth.
When I began with Iola I was struggling with the loss of my mother and a relationship. Iola gave me the time and space needed to process my grief and loss. I feel healed from some past childhood trauma and I know I have better coping skills to continue healing. I have recommended this to some friends and family that I know are struggling with loss. This has been a wonderful journey for me and I will be forever grateful that our paths have crossed.

- Amy K.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is Grief Recovery for?
The Grief Recovery Method is used to address over 40+ types of loss, not just the death of a loved one.  Some examples would be: Loss of a pet, miscarriage, loss of your health, financial hardships, loss of a relationship, emotional, spiritual, and physical abuse, PTSD, anger and anxiety issues, loss of identity, moving, loss of concepts, like security, trust, and hope.  Basically, anything that causes someone grief.
How long does recovery take?
The Grief Recovery Method is structured for 7 weeks of one-on-one sessions, to be held at my office: 26 Office Park Drive, Palm Coast, FL 32137
What should I expect to gain from Grief Coaching?
In my experience, The Grief Recovery Method is the missing link to most types of on-the-couch counseling and group therapy sessions.  We will work together in a one-on-one setting with a proven evidence-based curriculum.  There are a set number of sessions (7), with a step-by-step process, that involves a change of perspective, learning a new set of grief recovery tools, plus reading & writing assignments each week.  You should expect to gain HOPE & HEALING for your heart.
Do you give free consultations?
Yes!  You can book a 15-minute Discovery Call (386-243-9090) or Call to schedule a meeting in person at my office and see the nurturing environment (26 Office Park Drive, Palm Coast, FL 32137).  Either way, I would love to meet you and see if we are a good fit for one another!
Do you take insurance?
No
Do you give discounts?
Yes, to all First & Last Responders, as well as our military & veterans as a thank you for your service!

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