Raelee Peirce
A PCI CERTIFIED PARENT COACH® PARENT COACH CERTIFICATION®
About
YOUR COACH, RAELEE
A PCI CERTIFIED PARENT COACH®, guiding parents to create warm, connected homes since 1999. I help parents move from frustration to connection by shifting from behavior-focused to relationship-first parenting—using rhythm and everyday moments to ease struggles and bring more harmony.
My approach is different because I don't focus on managing behavior or teaching skills your child isn't developmentally ready for. Instead, I help you strengthen the foundation that makes everything else possible: your relationship with your child. When children feel deeply connected to us, they naturally want to cooperate, listen, and grow. I work with parents to understand what their child really needs at each stage of development, so you can work with their nature rather than against it. This means less battling symptoms and more removing the obstacles that get in the way of natural growth.
Specializing in support for parents of children, tweens, and teens who feel stuck in power struggles, I offer a compassionate and practical approach that honors both you and your child.
Married for over 25 years and a mother to two young adults, Isabel and Keaton, I've walked the parenting journey from infancy to young adulthood.
When I'm not coaching, you'll find me in beginning yoga, strength training in my tiny home living room!, walking or chatting with my kids, mom, or friends, studying the works and courses of Dr. Gordon Neufeld or Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum, watching Netflix with my hubby and snuggling my cat, Gordon (yes, after my fave Developmentalist G. Neufeld).
Honoring My Mentors
I am deeply grateful to the mentors and guides whose wisdom has shaped my path and deepened my understanding of parenting, discipline, and connection.
My parents, Ray and Joanne—They raised me with unwavering love, authenticity, and resilience. Their steadfast faith and gentle guidance made the teachings of the Baha'i Faith a natural path for me to walk. I am forever grateful.
Kim John Payne—His work in Simplicity Parenting and The Soul of Discipline helped me create the family life I longed for. His insight into discipline as a reflection of values transformed my approach to motherhood and gave me the gift of helping parents bring more ease and connection into their homes.
Dr. Gordon Neufeld—His profound understanding of attachment, emotion, and human development changed how I see parenting. Through his teachings, I learned to look beyond behavior and into the heart of connection, fostering relationships that nurture true maturity.
Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum—Her groundbreaking work in nurture neuroscience and her compassionate mission to end traditional sleep training opened my eyes to how we can honor both biology and attachment in those tender early years. Her research-backed approach to responsive parenting has deepened my commitment to supporting families from the very beginning, helping parents trust their instincts and their babies' needs.
Dr. Greer Kirshenbaum—Her groundbreaking work in nurture neuroscience and her compassionate mission to end traditional sleep training opened my eyes to how we can honor both biology and attachment in those tender early years. Her research-backed approach to responsive parenting has deepened my commitment to supporting families from the very beginning, helping parents trust their instincts and their babies' needs.
Packages
FREE Guide: No More Threats, Bribes, and Punishments
Three simple, heart-based shifts to help you stop the threats and bribes and still lead with confidence, starting this week.
START HERE! Parent-Child Relationship Audit
Raelee's Front Porch
A free, welcoming community for parents who want to stay close to their children and lead with confidence, without threats, bribes, or punishments.
Full Guide: No More Threats And Bribes
$37. No More Threats, Bribes, or Punishments: A Parent's Guide to Heart-Based Discipline is a workbook for parents ready to move beyond discipline that divides and disconnects toward practices that increase a child's cooperation and desire to follow our lead.
Why Your Child Can't Let Go At Bedtime: A Parent Guide
$37. Bedtime doesn't have to be a nightly battle. This guide helps you understand why your child resists sleep, and how to lead bedtime with warmth and confidence instead of struggle.
Parenting Teens: A Parent Guide
Parenting Teens is a 49-page workbook for parents who feel their teen pulling away. It explains what’s really happening underneath the eye-rolling, the closed doors and the constant pushback, and how to stay close while your teen grows into their own person. Each section ends with journaling prompts and coaching questions so you turn the ideas into real change at home.
Free Clarity Session
FREE. A gentle 25-minute conversation to explore what’s happening in your family and whether an ongoing parenting practice grounded in connection and values feels right for you.
3 Month Coaching Package
Some seasons of parenting need more than a quick answer. If your home feels like a daily battle, or you've tried every method and still feel lost, this is space for real, lasting change, at your family's pace.
Professional Connection Session
FREE. Are you a fellow coach, educator, therapist, or other professional who wants to connect about our work in the world in supporting parents? Let's chat!
Testimonials
“I would highly recommend anyone who has not been able to figure out this parenting thing to work with Raelee. There are no instructions for parenting but she is like a guide that can steer you to calmer waters. Working with Raelee has a large ripple effect. Not only does she offer the best guidance with the parenting relationship but your personal relationship, including the one with yourself, will also be positively impacted. Her super power is staying steady when you are going through rough waters. And she is seriously like a rock that you know you can weather the storm on, we have gone through a few!”
- Lena F (mom to 8 year old)
"Raelee provides an approach to parenting challenges and concerns with compassion that gives real support on this journey. I gained a lot more insight into my parenting style, learned a new vocabulary that helps me understand more deeply the challenges my child faces (e.g soul fever). I found that creating a calm and centered home life is achievable."
- Mary M (Mom to 6 year old) Clarity Session
PARENT COACH FOR THE ROOTS OF CONNECTION
You can approach challenges as opportunities for growth, and inspire your children to do the same. It's starts with understanding what's underneath the behaviors.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know if a parent coach is right for my family?
There is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to families, but if any of these sound familiar,
then a parent coach may be right for you:
“I’m exhausted from fighting with my kids over everything—from getting dressed in the morning to finishing homework at night.”
“Our days feel chaotic, and I’m constantly stressed trying to keep up with everyone's schedules and needs.”
“I don’t know how to handle my child’s tantrums without losing my cool, and it feels like it’s happening more often.”
“I feel guilty all the time—whether I’m working or with my kids, I’m never fully present, and I don’t know how to make it all work.”
“I want to be firm but loving, but it seems like no matter what I do, my kids just ignore the rules.”
“It feels like I’m doing this all alone, and I don’t know if I’m making the right decisions for my kids or my family.”
“I’m so busy taking care of everyone else that I’ve forgotten how to take care of myself, and I’m running on empty.”
then a parent coach may be right for you:
“I’m exhausted from fighting with my kids over everything—from getting dressed in the morning to finishing homework at night.”
“Our days feel chaotic, and I’m constantly stressed trying to keep up with everyone's schedules and needs.”
“I don’t know how to handle my child’s tantrums without losing my cool, and it feels like it’s happening more often.”
“I feel guilty all the time—whether I’m working or with my kids, I’m never fully present, and I don’t know how to make it all work.”
“I want to be firm but loving, but it seems like no matter what I do, my kids just ignore the rules.”
“It feels like I’m doing this all alone, and I don’t know if I’m making the right decisions for my kids or my family.”
“I’m so busy taking care of everyone else that I’ve forgotten how to take care of myself, and I’m running on empty.”
What are your credentials to coach parents?
Check-out my Psychology Today Profile Here:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/1266256
https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/1266256
Where do you meet with clients?
I work 100% virtually. I prefer to meet parents by zoom but sometimes we revert to a phone call when it's more convenient for the parent.
My Philosophy
Parenting is not about perfect strategies or quick fixes—it’s about connection, rhythm, and guiding our children with clarity and warmth. I believe that when we shift from child-centered parenting to values-driven parenting, we create a home where both parents and children thrive.
I know how easy it is to get caught in cycles of power struggles, frustration, and exhaustion. When daily life feels chaotic, we may resort to control or constant negotiation, losing sight of the bigger picture. But when we step back, simplify, and realign with what truly matters, parenting becomes more intuitive and fulfilling.
The key isn’t managing our children’s behavior—it’s deepening our relationship with them. When we slow down, create rhythms that support connection, and lead with confidence and empathy, struggles ease, cooperation grows, and home becomes a place of harmony.
It’s never too late to parent with more presence, trust, and alignment. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply longing for more ease in your days, I’m here to walk alongside you as you build the family life you truly want.
I know how easy it is to get caught in cycles of power struggles, frustration, and exhaustion. When daily life feels chaotic, we may resort to control or constant negotiation, losing sight of the bigger picture. But when we step back, simplify, and realign with what truly matters, parenting becomes more intuitive and fulfilling.
The key isn’t managing our children’s behavior—it’s deepening our relationship with them. When we slow down, create rhythms that support connection, and lead with confidence and empathy, struggles ease, cooperation grows, and home becomes a place of harmony.
It’s never too late to parent with more presence, trust, and alignment. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply longing for more ease in your days, I’m here to walk alongside you as you build the family life you truly want.
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