Cynthia Bové
Holding your loved one's light with you as you learn to breathe again.
About
Hi, I’m Cynthia.
If you are a parent whose child has died, or a parent living with estrangement, I want to begin by saying how deeply sorry I am that you are walking this path.
There is no loss like the loss of a child — whether through death, distance, or broken connection. It changes everything. And many parents tell me the hardest part is how alone they feel in their grief, especially when the world expects them to keep going as if their heart hasn’t been forever altered.
Thirty-eight years ago, my son Christopher was born with a very serious heart defect. We thought that we were going to the hospital to welcome our new baby, but instead we left to make funeral plans.
I am also an estranged mother and have been living with this pain for over ten years. One thing rings true for loss: the sadness and loneliness ease a bit when you have others to help you carry it. I needed a community of people who understood the lonely path I was walking. If you lost your beloved child, you know exactly what I mean.
I am also an estranged mother and have been living with this pain for over ten years. One thing rings true for loss: the sadness and loneliness ease a bit when you have others to help you carry it. I needed a community of people who understood the lonely path I was walking. If you lost your beloved child, you know exactly what I mean.
I am a certified grief coach and companion for those navigating the unbearable weight of losing a child or someone deeply loved.
My work is grounded in compassion, deep presence, trauma-informed support, and the belief that grief is not something to "get over," but something we learn to carry with tenderness, meaning, and continued connection.
I walk beside you—never in front of you, never pushing—honoring your pace, your story, and your love.
Packages
Free Discovery Call
You are invited to a complimentary 30 minute conversation to connect and learn more about where you are in your grief journey.
Holding Their Light Private Session
This session is for mothers who carry the deep pain of losing a child. Whether your child died recently or many years ago, grief has no timeline - and you are welcome here exactly as you are.
Holding Their Light™ Six-Week Grief Support Circle
This is a six session closed group for people who are looking to heal in the company of other grieving mothers.
When Love Has No Place to Land™ Six-Week Support Circle for Estranged Mothers
This group for parents who are experiencing the pain of estrangement where hold space for the heartbreak of the distance. You can simply arrive, breathe, and be with others who understand.
When Love Has No Place to Land™ Private Session
This session is for parents who carry the agony of estrangement every minute of every day. Whether your child cut off contact with you recently or many years ago, grief has no timeline - and you are welcome here exactly as you are.
"After Us" Six-Week Grief Support Circle
This is a six-session closed group for people who are looking to heal in the company of others who have lost their beloved.
One Time Payment Package
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I met Cynthia decades ago while raising my children, and she has remained a steady, meaningful presence in my life. I’ve watched her grow into an exceptionally wise, compassionate, and dedicated professional.
Her years as a teacher helped countless students discover their strengths, and she brings that same depth of insight to her work with grieving families today. Cynthia is not only highly trained—she is uniquely equipped to support those facing profound loss.
- Antonia Betancourt MSS, LCSW, RPT-S
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